The tiny mustard seed indeed grows into a large tree. But there is a seed that can grow into a titan bigger than even a mighty Sequoia.
Let’s look at a seed for those in a non-marriage relationships. Uncertainty. If I make a commitment now I might miss out on someone better. The Doubtful Question: What if there is someone even better out there? That seemingly realistic question prevents 100% commitment. Better to move on and get certain about what you want than live with that demon. Beware of narcissists, sociopaths, selfish and self-centered persons. Ask someone whom has been divorced.
An amazing question to ask would be “If this is just where we are starting from how amazing is this journey together going to be? Put a few answers down. Make them goals. Ask someone whom has been married 20 years or longer.