Why do you do that like you do? Because you have an opinion, a belief, or conviction about the subject perhaps even a value or set of values. This system we have will govern our emotions, which in turn will influence our decisions and resultant actions, and hence our destiny.
What are we to do? Start creating a map. A map of situations, people, places, things, institutions and entities that are part of your present and past life and then put down your belief, opinion, feeling about these right next to them. Then the questions to ask are “Has this past or present belief about this item gotten me what I want, or any pleasure?” or “Has this resulted in a painful outcome”. By doing this you will have identified you limiting beliefs and the things you need to change.
